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Why Is Leadership So Difficult? Paradoxes (and How to Master Them)

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After thousands of years and countless words written and spoken about leadership, why is it still so hard to get it right?

Perhaps because leadership is rife with paradoxes? A paradox includes two contradictory concepts both of which are true. We recount some of them here.

Leaders are:

  1. Adaptive and persistent.
  2. Asking and telling.
  3. Bosses and servants.
  4. Committed and flexible.
  5. Confident and humble.
  6. Courageous enough to lead and follow.
  7. Demanding and forgiving.
  8. Warfield generals and sanctuary seekers.
  9.  Fierce and fun.
  10.  Focused on the future and the present.
  11.  Hard and soft.
  12.  Impervious and vulnerable.
  13.  Inspiring and inspired.
  14.  Lonely and connected.
  15.  Masters of change and stewards of history.
  16.  Nimble and solid.
  17.  Open to criticism and resolute against attacks.
  18.  Optimistic and realistic.
  19.  Passionate and temperate.
  20.  Patient and impatient.
  21.  Persuasive and persuadable.
  22.  Respected and respectful.
  23.  Smart in the head and stout in the heart.
  24.  Sprinters and marathoners.
  25.  Strong inside and resilient outside.
  26.  Talkers and listeners.
  27.  Teachers and students.
  28.  Thick-skinned and soft-hearted.
  29.  Trusting and skeptical.
  30.  Visionaries and doers.
  31.  Worldly wise and open like a child.

In each of these paradoxes, we all naturally tend toward one of these two contradictory concepts. The key to mastering leadership paradoxes is to flex between the two contradictory concepts depending on the people and the situation. Sometimes the leader listens deeply, open to be persuaded; other times the leader talks passionately to persuade. Triple crown leaders are comfortable with paradox.

What paradoxes in leadership have you observed? Which are the toughest for you?

We welcome your additions to our paradox list.

Bob and Gregg Vanourek, father and son, are co-authors of Triple Crown Leadership: Building Excellent, Ethical, and Enduring Organizations, winner of the 2013 International Book Awards (Business: General). Twitter: @TripleCrownLead

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